Sincerely, Saskia

Why do I say begrudgingly?

I know no one held a gun to my head, but whether it’s Bonnie Blue or the latest Marvel disappointment, I like to make up my own mind about whether or not to hate something.

Now, it’s no secret that Bonnie Blue’s online persona is extremely unlikeable. From the TikTok’s she posts telling wives to keep scrolling so she can flirt with their husbands to doing an interview with that son of a- Andrew Tate, it’s hard to know whether all this just a publicity stunt or whether she is actually just awful?

Well, after watching her Channel 4 documentary 1000 Men and Me: The Bonnie Blue Story, I can conclude that it took me less than half the hour runtime to make my mind up about her. Sometimes when people show you who they are, you should believe them.

For those of who are blissfully unaware who Bonnie Blue is, let me rain on your parade real quick. She is an OnlyFans creator turn internet sensation – or headache depending on what side of the fence you sit — who sets herself extreme challenges to dominate the adult industry.

Now, let me make myself very clear; the least offensive thing about Bonnie Blue is the fact that she’s slept with more men than most women will in a lifetime. Sex work is the oldest profession in the book; it may wear different jackets now, but it is and always will be a way for people to make money — and we don’t shame that here.

Bonnie’s feminism get out of jail free card; to say this is what feminism fought for is a huge cop out and shows her complete lack of connection to the movement in the first place.

Although, I will say her seemingly outward obsession with the barely legal comes across massively predatory. If Bonnie Blue were a man, she’d be filming this documentary with a mask over face, either from behind bars or one those nondescript Vice interview locations.

Predatory AF behaviour aside for a second, Bonnie claims she’s motivated by her love for strange and essentially people shouldn’t be mad about what she does as the feminist movement fought for her right to engage in sexual activity with whoever, whenever and how many she chooses.

As the title of the documentary suggests, Bonnie slept with 1000 men – potentially over 1000 actually – in one night somewhere near Oxford St. No STI information requested, just ID, condoms and a free invitation to do whatever they wanted to her — except anal, of course, everyone has a line, I guess.

Bonnie claimed she loves to look down and see a wedding ring on a man’s finger, when he’s playing away from home with who could soon be the most prolific amateur adult content creator this side of the equator.

Now, back to Bonnie’s feminism get out of jail free card; to say this is what feminism fought for is a huge cop out and shows her complete lack of connection to the movement in the first place. The women’s movement first and foremost is about community, equality and dismantling the harmful practices of the patriarchy. Bonnie goes out of her way to ostracise women, whilst simultaneously using them to get what she wants. What was it she said? Oh yes, something like, ‘the more they mention me, the more their husbands and sons will go upstairs and Google me.’

Bonnie must have said ten times that she does what she does because she loves sex, I’m sorry but it seems to me like she does this because she hates women and the fact that it’s mostly women that dislike her seems to fuel her motivation to continue to do what she does.

There was a part of the documentary where it became increasingly clear that Bonnie is the epitome of a pick me girl when she said: “I’m not going to be like those other girls that just lie and bullsh*t all the time.”

What is with the need to drag other women down in the process of building yourself up if your whole thing revolves around how much you love sex? Why does annoying women have to be such a big part of your marketing strategy? The quintessential blonde haired, blue eyed girl no more than a size ten shouldn’t need that to get ahead – are you not the Eurocentric pinnacle of beauty?

Bonnie went on to express how her one fear was getting acid thrown into her face by any “spiteful girl.” How out of touch do you have to be to not know that women are the prime target for acid attacks, not the perpetrators. Acid is growing in popularity as a weapon in cases of violence against women, with data carried out as recently as July 2025. I think it’s the men lining up to have sex with you you’d have to worry about more than any woman complaining about you to that husband you can’t wait to bed.

Bonnie’s alignment with Andrew Tate speaks volumes. A man whose propaganda against women has incited violence and activated sleeper incels all over the world, a man facing human trafficking and rape charges and she still have the audacity to call yourself a feminist.

Her video editor proudly sat there on TV and said: “Andrew Tate is just a male version of her [Bonnie Blue].”

And the award for the biggest insult disguised as a compliment goes to…

Sleep with whoever you want to sleep with, get that money, make that content – if OnlyFans ever lets her back on the platform — but please stop latching yourself onto a movement that you are so actively helping to set back.

Image Credit: Channel 4